Lori and I were hammering out a list of habits that damage trust. We scribbled words like Blaming, Overcommitting, Playing Victim on a whiteboard, the list growing longer as we fired off examples. Eventually, we transferred the words to index cards, allowing us to move them around and sort them by groups.

The cards we created became the Fuckery Deck. The Deck turns static words into something you can see and touch. Holding the physical representation of your own unacknowledged fuckery is powerful. Habits are regularly added, as teams provide new examples we’ve overlooked. You can use our list to make your own Fuckery Deck.

(* Indicates Go to Hell Pile (GHP), beyond the scope of this book)

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